| November 13, 2004 |
Messages in the Sand
By: Laura O’Brien |
As Mihali and I walked along the golden
Long Island shore, it was hard to believe that only two hours
earlier snow flurries sprinkled the sand with silver. Having
melted and erased white traces, the rising sun stretched its
warm arms across a cloudless November sky and caressed its
reflection in the glassy sea. Little did I know that Mihali
had been up half the night pleading and praying for the perfect
day. So when a zephyr came to part the clouds and breathed
hope into Mihali’s plan, I didn’t think twice
when I refused his offer to take me for a stroll on the beach.
“It’s too co-o-o-oold.”
I shivered, picturing the icy air slicing through my jeans
and sending chills up my legs.
“Laura, you’re from NY, aren’t
you supposed to be used to it?”
“I froze when I lived here and
I’m freezing now.” (Okay, my responses might be
a bit dramatic, but what do you expect from an Italian girl
with Irish and Viking blood pumping through her veins!)
“Well, maybe that’s why I’m
here with you.” And with that, being a gentleman, he
unzipped his jacket and wrapped it around me.
Fortunately, Mihali is not the kind of
man who gives up easily. Unbeknownst to me, he had already
invested a lot of time into plotting and planning the perfect
proposal. It wasn’t just picking out and sizing the
ring, but winning both my Father and older brother’s
approval (so much so that when he asked my father to give
my hand in marriage, my father eagerly replied, “Which
hand would you like, right or left?”). Not to mention
selecting the perfect place to pop the question: A weekend
getaway to NYC, the place of my roots, where he would literally
wine and dine me, through the Manhattan streets; to the Metropolitan
Museum of Art, offering personal narrations for the interpretations
of Picasso, Monett, and his all time favorite, Salvador Dali;
but that was just to get me warmed up, so to speak, to the
final destination Mattituck, the Long Island coast where I
spent summers at my Grandmother’s beach house dreaming
about the man I would one day marry. It would be along this
very shore that Mihali would step out of my childhood dreams
and write the proposal in the sand.
When I refused to go to the beach, Mihali
suggested that we visit a local vineyard, take a tour on how
wine is made, and then sit at the bar and do wine tasting.
We only had a few sips, but it was enough to warm us up for
a walk on the beach.
By the time we arrived at the beach,
the sun stood in the center of the sky and its brilliant rays
were dancing across the water. We laughed, chased each other,
I hitched a piggyback ride and then took pictures. Then we
stumbled upon a wall of huge granite rocks that outlined the
sea shore, and provided a back for us to lead against. It
was so relaxing that we closed our eyes and listened to the
waves whisper.
When I opened mine, Mihali was suddenly
standing up at the shore holding a stick in his hand. He began
writing something in the sand. It was my name: “LAURA
O’BRIEN . . .”
His eyes met mine and I knew we were
both thinking the same thing: of our second date, which also
happened to be at the beach, where Mihali had written me a
very romantic message in the sand, I believe it was “LAURA
IS A DORK.” That was three months before, and now as
he continued writing my name, I instantly refuted:
“IF YOU WRITE ‘IS A DORK’
I’M GOING TO THROW YOU IN THE WATER.”
I got up and walked closer. He wrote
a “W.” Then an “I.” Then two "L's".
It spelled “LAURA O’BRIEN WILL . . . ”
“WILL WHAT?” I thought. “What
are you writing NOW!”
“WILL YOU . . .” Could this
be what I think it is? And before I had time to blink, there
it was caved across the sand in capital letters almost as
wide as Mihali’smile.
“LAURA O’BRIEN, WILL YOU
MARRY ME?” A proposal engraved in the sand on the very
beach where I grew up dreaming about this man and this moment.
He then threw down his artist’s staff, knelt down, and
pulled out a navy, velvet jewelry box that encased the most
beautiful diamond ring I had ever seen, held by the most handsome
I had ever seen.
So what did I do? Well, I instantly side-swiped
the stick and wrote the biggest “Y-E-S!” in capital
letters across the sand. I then skipped back to Mihali, who
was still kneeling, ring in hand, and he slid the ring onto
my finger. The ring glided on just like buttah! For a moment,
I thought Mihali just might have stolen the sun from the sky
and placed it on my finger. But I later realized that God
took the man out of my dreams and placed him in my arms.
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